Explaining Vanlife to Others

Some of you may have a similar issue as I do… explaining the real benefits to living in a vehicle to family or friends who don’t want to understand why anyone would CHOOSE this lifestyle. I wrote a mini-essay that I usually send to them to help open the conversation. Hopefully it can be useful to you guys, too!

7 Reasons Living in a Van is No Sacrifice

We all know the stereotypes of the so-called “van lifers”. Nudest hippies that don’t shower and practice yoga daily, youngsters in their parents old station wagon resisting a real career, middle aged married couples with dream catchers who want to revamp their marriage. And, of course, old men who love windmills. Although I’m sure there are plenty of travelers that fit these beautiful molds, I’ve yet to meet them in my 2 years on the road.

Van life is on the rise, and for good reason. Rent prices are increasing around the world, the birth of the internet has led to countless online jobs, and the safety of travel, especially in first-would countries, is becoming widespread knowledge across our communities.

People are surprised when they learn my partner, Ladislav, and I live in a car. Maybe because we don’t look like the stereotypes I listed above. We both went to university, we dress well, carry iPhones and Nikon cameras, and spend time in places ridden with five star hotels and top rated restaurants.

We’ve made sacrifices, but they aren’t the ones many would expect. Below are seven things we have never sacrificed for a mobile lifestyle in a Citroen Jumper L2H2.

  1. Food - One large assumption about van living is you’ll be forced to digest gas station sandwiches and not see a real vegetable for 3 months.

We might not be foodies, but we know how to cook. In our van we have a blender, panini maker, fridge, stove, sink, chopping boards, rice cooker, kettle and plenty of spices. We are equipped with all the plates, bowls, and cutlery you’d find in any apartment. Ladislav has morning smoothies with omelets and buttered bread. I opt for a large coffee with a biscuit and jam. For lunches we make starter soups and toasted sandwiches, while dinners consist of beef stews with rice, or maybe a cheesy tomato pasta.

Cooking ourselves not only favors our wallets, but also gives us the ability to pull over at any road junction, parking lot or neighborhood to eat whatever we’re in the mood for. This kitchen isn’t large either, everything we need takes up less than a meter of space.

  1. Hygiene - Every traveler has a different definition of clean. Does it mean to shower daily? We do. Does it mean never wearing the same shirt as yesterday? Does it mean brushing your teeth twice a day and washing your face?

I can only speak for us as a couple, and I know us to be clean. We wash our clothes weekly, whether at a laundromat or by hand, but yeah, we sometimes wear the same shirt twice. We utilize our sink for the hygiene basics and have a shower out the back door, complete with a privacy curtain. I’d also add that my feet smell regardless of where I live.

  1. Gadgets - Adult toys are probably our biggest weakness. We both have our own phones, laptops and Ladislav has an entire photography setup. We relay on our gadgets for GPS, sightseeing suggestions, safe camping locations, and instagram. Typical millennials, I suppose.

With this tech come all the respective cables, headphones, cases for the headphones, charger heads, the extra charge head, and multi-socket blocks. Plus that one cord we are scared to throw away because it could be for something important. We also travel with two large electric bikes, both dependent on a specific charger. We installed a full screen projector, too. It’s mostly for movie nights, but the reason behind its original purpose was simple: Game of Thrones Season 8.

Usually, the main gadget concern has hovered around charging and how to do it efficiently, but the van clan showed us the way forward: inverters.

We’ve avoided solar until this point because we have nowhere to ship it. Having no address does have some cons. Instead, our van is equipped with multiple USB outlets and 3 European sockets run on a separate battery setup inside. This battery charges as we drive or can be plugged into a public electricity source, such as the Tesla Charging stations throughout Europe. Our heater and fridge are also routed to that same battery. Living in a car doesn’t mean becoming technologically obsolete, it just means finding creative ways to charge your favorite toys.

  1. Communication- Keeping in close contact with the people we care most about is one of our top priorities. Not calling home or checking in regularly can feel a bit isolating during your time on the road.

We’ve flown across the world to attend weddings and holiday parties, but you can only do that so many times a year. Between those trips we’ve found a balance: “WhatsApp” messaging.

We send photos of our van to our families from just about everywhere, be it Africa or Europe. We have group messages, video chats, etc., but the main reason we turn to WhatsApp is for their voice recording system.

I’m notorious for long voice notes. I believe my longest is close to an hour, but that was after a couple glasses of wine. I would even argue that living in a van has given me more time to communicate with those I love; my 9-5 job, gym and sleep routine at home took up most my energy before.

It feels weird to record yourself for the first time, but it becomes addictive the moment you receive a recording from someone else. Hearing a family members voice while they are so far away has a beautiful calming effect, especially if there’s any lingering homesickness. My friends say they listen to my recordings while cooking, brushing their teeth, or procrastinating at work. In the age of WhatsApp there is no excuse for failing to communicate with the ones who’ve supported you from the beginning, even if you live in a van.

  1. Health- Our physical health and mental health have been affected in different ways since packing into our Jumper. Physically, we have become healthier people. We eat clean since we cook ourselves and exercise often in the form of hiking, city strolls, and biking. You burn a lot of calories swimming at the beach, biking up the the castes and walking in circles searching for the nearest bar.

Living in a van outside of my home country is a major health privilege. Neither myself nor my partner have any health issues we need to consistently see a doctor for. We have purchased international health insurance just in case anything unexpected does happen, though. This has already come in handy at local public hospitals when I’ve broken bones or he’s broken out in a rash from a poorly planned bush pee.

Mental health has been the biggest change. Humans respond to nature, and spending more time in the natural world has put a lot of big city problems in perspective. Additionally, living in a small space and adopting a minimalist approach to material goods has lessened our monetary struggles. It’s allowed us to focus on our time and our relationship instead of our clutter. Plus, it becomes really easy to focus on the relationship with your partner when they’re always there. All the time. Living in that tiny space in the middle of no where. Trust me.

  1. Sleep: Sleeping in a vehicle is a major deterrence for those considering van living. Everyone has their preferences, and sleep preferences divide the masses. Whether it’s a sleeping mat or in a king size feather mattress, we are all chasing those 8 beautiful hours; uninterrupted and safe.

We have a queen size bed in the back of our L2. It’s elevated above our bikes and we have a step that helps us climb onto it. The bed it set high, aiming to utilize as much of the van space as possible. This allows us optimum storage and a very cozy atmosphere on chilly nights. The beauty of designing your own campervan is that you can design it around how you prefer to sleep. If you want the bed to take up the majority of the van, make it so! We prefer more space for our kitchen, seating and storage, so our bed is smaller. We did put a roof window in above our heads so we can fall asleep looking at the stars and have fresh air overnight.

The safety factor while sleeping in a car is of the utmost importance. It’s not worth sacrificing safety for a nap. I don’t mind gas stations and formal camp grounds; it’s well lit and you can honk for attention to quickly be heard. National parks and beaches are my favorite: peaceful, beautiful, and well recommended on most camping apps. Survival instincts help most to avoid small dirt roads surrounded by abandoned buildings covered in spray paint. Of course, safety depends on which country you’re staying in, so each traveler should research thoroughly! We installed a safe in our van and also make sure to lock the door before going to sleep, just like at home.

Unplanned morning wake-up stories always stick out in my mind the most. Our first night in Croatia we had crossed the border at 11:47pm with 13 minutes remaining on my Schengen Visa. We hadn’t put up our curtains that night and the next morning we awoke to a massive pounding on the door. The police demanded to enter the van and were fairly confused to why a Czech and an American were sleeping on the side of the road in a tiny village. After a short exchange we realized they thought our tripod was a rifle. They smiled, after asking for a quick tour of our “sleeping van” and left us very awake and giggling. Always put up your curtains, people!

  1. Money: A huge reason van life is so appealing is because it’s cheaper than a mortgage with all the benefits of adventure. For many, traveling is often paired with the hassle of protecting the home while you’re away. It could be just leaving, but for some it turns into paying house-sitters or organizing Airbnb guests. We’ve met many travelers who’ve sublet their apartments or rent out their homes to help fund their trips. They’ve soon realized how little they require to travel happily and how unnecessary it was to spend so much money on things they don’t even miss while away. You don’t need 365 outfits, 20 photo frames and 7 sets of different colored dishware. You can love it and own it, but you don’t need it.

I shop for less for clothing now. I don’t buy many decorations for the van. I spend less on Starbucks coffees and Walgreens snacks because I always have my grocery purchases near me, in our van. When you have less space, you become more particular to how it is filled. Living in an apartment or home you don’t realize how much junk you own until packing it up and moving it into the next place, a bigger place, costing more money.

We are digital nomads, making our money online. That comes with some obstacles, such as SIM cards, hotspots, and irregular paychecks. We’ve worked in some ridiculous places, but it’s worth it. It worth it because I wake up with a new, astonishing view every morning.

A list of our main expenses, in no particular order:

  • Wine
  • Groceries
  • Diesel
  • Car insurance
  • Health insurance
  • SIM cards
  • Laundry

What would your monthly bill look like if that’s all you needed to spend money on? For me it’s better to work in a beautiful environment, even if the work is lame. Besides, spending US dollars in other countries with weaker currencies goes much farther than it would at home!

In closing, van living isn’t for anyone, but I don’t believe it’s reserved for the crazies or the cheap. I see vanlifers as very practical travelers who look at travel and adventure as something beyond the 2 week vacation time from work. Even if these reasons don’t convince you, hopefully it sheds some light on the current trend, be it for better or for worse. Happy travels, you’ll see me on the road!

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Greetings!

Wow! My explanation was much shorter, but got everybody on board instantly. It went something like this:

I’ve bought a VW camper van to live in and travel the country to where the jobs are, while exploring our great nation. I added a toilet and a shower, so I have all the comforts of any house or home anywhere. With it, I can live comfortably on a tiny budget while saving for the future. I am not running away, or trying to escape, I am running towards a quicker, better, brighter, and more successful future. I will never be farther than the telephone away, and you will always be in my thoughts and prayers no matter how many miles are between us. I will stay in touch, and keep you updated. I love you all, and nothing will ever change that.

Little did I know that 40+ years later, I would still be living on the road. As time passed, my family and friends spread out across the country, and my lifestyle has allowed me to spend more time with them than if I was stuck in some town somewhere. We also meet up for camp outs, and it’s been a wonderful life.

Cheers!


"Those who believe money can't buy hapiness, don't have either." ~ An Anonymous Vandweller


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Love this, thank you for such a well represented explanation! <3

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Wow this is awesome! Great job with the explanations and photos and we 100% agree with what you shared! We mostly talk to people about hygeine because that’s their biggest concern (showering every other day for us) and mental & physical health (we’ve been way healthier because like you said, no point eating fast food when your groceries are always right with you! And being able to have time to pursue passion projects and relationships make you much happier!) People get excited when we’re able to share on these points

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I’m glad you like it!

I always think it’s so interesting that so many people almost seemed programmed to immediately reject the idea of van living. It is so engraved in our social norms to buy the house with a picket fence that when people don’t do it: WHY? THAT’S MADNESS! I’m glad you’ve been able to share the perks with others and get them exciting about all the possibilities!

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Wow. Awesome writeup!
Ours was always much shorter-

“Why would we want to live in a van? So someone else can pay our mortgage while we live affordable, travel full time and get to focus on happiness and freedom while also saving money to chase our wildest dreams.”

That usually does the trick.
And if it doesn’t we just send them to our blog for more info than they could ever hope to have about our journey, or at this point we realize they just aren’t going to get it anyway (this is an important realization) and move onto another topic entirely. :wink:

Hmmm. Sounds like a pretty self centered way of life to me. Focusing on your happiness and your freedom while everyone else does all the proper work keeping the world turning so you can wake up to another beach sunrise and feel smug about it all over again. Good job we don’t all decide to abandon life’s normal responsibilities and ‘travel’ full time or else there would be nothing left to travel to…

Greetings!

I’m past retirement age, and still work full time, plus do a lot of volunteering. Retirement was boring as heck to me. I’m happiest when I’m accomplishing something. Camping in the middle of nowhere by myself just isn’t for me.

Cheers!


"If you prepare for the worst, every thing else is easier." ~ Off Grid



DB0511, Sounds like you’re envious. There’s nothing wrong with what they’re doing, and they are working to support their lifestyle. If someone values what they do enough to pay them, and that pay is enough to support their lifestyle, then they are contributing. Don’t crap on other’s lifestyle choices because you can’t do the same or you can’t see yourself doing it. It’s juvenile.

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Stellar write up! Love it!!

Thank you! Interesting and fun read. :slight_smile:

Everyone is free to do what they choose in life (well, not everyone but that’s a separate debate). My gripe is with the sort of van lifers who adopt a sort of smug superiority as if they have discovered some sort of responsibility free nirvana whilst taking advantage of all the hard work and doily grind carried out by those they seem to think are not ‘enlightened ‘. I’ve met a few of these characters and they are just so caught up in their own worthiness it’s comical.t

Greetings!

Amen to self entitled and possibly drug induced jerks. There’s nothing worse than arriving at a trashed campsite.

Cheers!


"They told me I'd save money with solar, and have free electricity.
Neither was true." ~ Disgusted in Dallas


DB, it appears that the couple who wrote this article are somehow making a living through working. Work doesn’t have to be physical labor - those with smarts and education are more able to work remotely - not well understood by those who have only done physical labor. The smugness part? Well I guess that’s all a matter of opinion. I do agree with you that some portray their lives as utopian, which might be a little disingenuous.

Very cool article and responses. I really enjoyed this!

great article. I like this very much.

What a dismay it would be to get a BMW paint job, only for it to be ruined by improper cleaning.

You made an interesting post. It was interesting for me to read it.